7 Things I’ve Learnt As A Beginner Blogger

Beginner blogger moments.
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I’m more comfortable calling myself a writer than a beginner blogger, because I’m not “there” yet. For the sake of simplicity, let’s just call myself that. This blog began in November 2018. I was only writing and posting, so it was more like a journal.

In May 2019, I decided to give blogging a serious try. It’s really in the past 3 months that I learnt the majority of what’s written in this post. Anyway, that brings me to lesson 1.

Disclaimer: this post isn’t about how to improve your blog or traffic, it’s about how to help you stay encouraged on the blogging journey!

1. Build a support system for your blog, and keep learning and experimenting.

I had almost no visitors to my blog for the first 5 months. Having studied marketing, I knew that a product, whether good or bad, has to have some marketing behind it for it to generate interest.

The first thing I did when I decided to dive into blogging is to start reading and following other blogs on WordPress. Then, I created a Facebook page for my blog, and started Dark Blue Journal accounts on Instagram, Twitter and Pinterest. I wasn’t sure which social media would work better for me.

My Instagram account is a flop, considering that I’m a hermit without many fresh photos.

On the other hand, Twitter has been a great experience! I’ve even managed to make some Twitter friends – a feat for this little hermit. Three months ago, I was still feeling lost and confused in Twitter-verse. I’d never guess that I’ll be having nice interactions with fellow bloggers and writers three months later. I get most of my readers from Twitter too.

I’m still working on my Pinterest, we’ll see where that takes me.

In any case, the traffic is finally getting a little better. A little.

Read widely about blogging tips and keep experimenting to make it better!

2. Poor traffic may get to you regardless of your motivation. Keep writing!

Even though I’ve made it a point to keep in mind that my main aim in running a blog is to improve my writing, having poor traffic bugs me sometimes. It makes me question my work.

Am I doing something wrong? Is my writing bad? Am I boring?

It’s easy to feel overlooked. There’s just something about having stats that make you want to see them increase. Maybe it’s an inherent human trait, we want to be acknowledged!

But it’s important that we don’t take poor traffic personally. Aside from the fact that it’s normal for beginner bloggers to have poorer traffic, remember that traffic isn’t a good gauge of the quality of our work. The cyberspace is just so vast and cluttered. It could be that people simply didn’t come across your blog yet, or your subject of interest is on the niche side.

Of course, it could be that it’s a quality issue, but so what? You can learn to do better.

In any case, don’t let poor traffic stop you from writing. Remember your motivation for starting a blog and hold on to it. You have something worth saying, and you’ll only get better with time.

3. Blogging is a lot of work and learning, but it’s fun.

I don’t think one will understand how much work it is until one starts to blog for real. Let me list the basics:

  • Researching posts
  • Writing posts
  • Keeping up with social media
  • Creating pins for pinterest
  • Reading other blogs
  • Keeping track of posts and promotions
  • Learning about blog maintenance

There isn’t a day when I’m not doing something for the blog. Yet I know bloggers who are also business-owners, full-time employees, Youtubers, and podcast-ers etc. Some of them create courses and freebies and newsletters. They’re super productive!

As a beginner blogger, I’m still at the learning stage. I’m learning to write, compile research, use social media, and run my blog. There’s still a million things I don’t know about blogging, but I’ll take it one day at a time.

That said, it is enjoyable work.

4. It’s possible to befriend people you’ve never met, and you’ll get encouragement from total strangers

This has to be one of the biggest perks of blogging. Being an introvert, socializing on WordPress and Twitter with “strangers” is more comfortable than socializing “irl”.

It’s fascinating and awesome to know that you can make connections online with seemingly random people. I love the friends I’ve made on WordPress and Twitter! They’ve made my blogging journey so much less lonely.

If you’re new to blogging, try to make some blogger friends. They’ll understand what you’re going through, and you’ll benefit from their company. It’ll help keep you inspired.

You’ll be surprised how many nice people are out there, ready to offer a kind word to you. So many times, I’d publish a post, feel that it wasn’t good enough, and still receive encouraging comments for it!

It tells me that people are more forgiving toward imperfections in my writing than I am, and confirms my belief that there’re more good people than bad ones out there.

None of them needed to take the time to drop the comment, compliment, or words of encouragement. Hell, they didn’t even have to read what I wrote. But they did.

I’m very thankful for everyone who took the time to read and/or comment on what I wrote. Few things are more precious than a person’s attention and time. I shall strive to make every post worth reading!

5. Be less critical, and more encouraging toward creators

Anyone who creates is a creator, be it writing, art, crafts, apps, or a meal. Creating and sharing work with the world involves a fair amount of vulnerability.

Each piece of work carries a piece of its creator, and he/she present it to the world with both hands.

Each piece we put out there is done with the best of our ability at that point in time. Yet, each piece we put out there puts us at risk of ridicule and heartbreak.

The more I write, the more I appreciate any form of creativity, and the more I want to encourage it or not criticize it.

Sharing something we really enjoy doing is frightening. If we’re less critical and more encouraging, we create a more nurturing environment that supports more creators.

We all know it makes our day to get a friendly comment or an encouragement. Be less critical and more encouraging!

6. You’ll feel a lot of uncertainty, but you’ll feel bouts of hope too

Your emotions will be tugged in different directions.

Even without external influence, you could self-sabotage if you get self-doubt. One moment, you could be worrying about the quality of your work and where the idea for your next post will come from.

Another moment, you could be beaming because someone complimented you on a post.

It makes things worse if you look at the numbers on your statistics and read about someone’s incredible view counts. I’ve lost count of the number of times I thought, “I’ve got a long way to go!” and “it doesn’t feel like I’ll get there…”

It can be very distracting and discouraging, and it can affect your motivation to write. Don’t buy into your emotions. Keep writing!

I find that setting up a posting schedule helped a lot. In all my previous blogging attempts, I never had a fixed schedule. This time around, I made it a point to post every Tuesday and Saturday. It has made me more consistent.

Even when I have a stretch of days when I’m very demoralized, I’ll make sure I have the next post covered.

Always keep your original intention of starting a blog in mind. It may be to spread awareness for a cause or an illness, to introduce good books to people, or to simply share your writing. Holding on to your original intent would help keep you going, and your sincerity would shine in your posts.

Beginner bloggers need hope!
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7. Your writing will improve, if you’re consistent

I haven’t been blogging that long, but I’ve seen some improvement in my writing thanks to the regular practice.

As mentioned above, having a schedule makes me write regularly. Before, I’d write only when I feel like it, or when an idea strikes me. That’s a really bad idea.

The schedule created a commitment, especially because I made a “promise” on my Twitter profile that I publish two new posts every week.

Having completed pieces every week isn’t just helpful practice-wise, it helps to build confidence too.

It sends the message to your brain that you’re capable of completing work and makes starting new posts feel less daunting.

If you’re also a beginner blogger, I highly recommend setting up a schedule. Apart from improving your skills, it also helps to establish a consistent presence and a good habit.


So there it is, 7 things I’ve learnt as a beginner blogger. I don’t now where this journey will take me, but I hope I’ll be on it for a very long time.

Are you a blogger or a writer? Do share your experience when you’re just starting out!

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22 thoughts on “7 Things I’ve Learnt As A Beginner Blogger

    1. Thanks for reading and commenting. I’m often neglecting Pinterest too. I’m not very good at coming up with visually pleasing content! Arrggh…
      I hope you’ll keep blogging too! We can be “colleagues” for a long long time! 🙂

    1. Ah thanks Garfield! I’m learning consistency and persistence from you. 🙂 Thanks for reading and commenting. I really appreciate it!

  1. Ahhhh I feel like I could have written this (admittedly not as well as you have!). I’ve been blogging a similar length that you have and everything that you said has rung true. I especially love how supportive random stranger are, just one like or comment (or constructive piece of feedback) means the world to me at this stage! Keep going you write beautifully x

    1. You’re funny, because I think you write well. In fact, I love your style! I tend to think my writing is boring. But thank you for the compliment nevertheless. I appreciate it! I’m glad you can identify with this post. Since we’ve blogging for a similar length, let’s work on it together! Hopefully we’ll get somewhere. Thanks for reading and commenting!

  2. I’m a brand new blogger, 1st month in. This blog is very relateable to the ups and downs of blogging. Though I’m a newbie, I’m a fast learner and so far I’ve seen that it will never be “all roses”. We must continue to motivate ourselves and each other inorder to endure. Thats the message I keep hearing over and over. Hnag in there with me!!! 🙂

    1. It’s lovely to hear that I have someone to “hang in there” with! Glad you could relate to this post. Lucky you, being able to learn fast would definitely help you on the blogging journey. You’ll get good in no time. 🙂 I feel like I’ve been learning consistently ever since I started blogging. Yup, let’s continue to keep each other motivated. Thanks for reading and commenting!

    1. Hi Molly, thanks for reading and commenting! The connections are so important. I’m glad they keep you going, because you write great and important posts. 🙂

  3. As a relative newbie I can say I wholeheartedly agree with all your points. I love blogging and writing every day but it can be disheartening at times. But I really love the community so much x

    1. Wow, you have loads of followers for a relative newbie! That’s an inspiration. 🙂 I totally agree, it can get disheartening, but it’s also very rewarding at times, as I’m sure you know. Cheers to the community! Thank you for reading and commenting!

    1. Hi Jaya, thanks for reading and commenting! Yes, the community keeps us going and makes us feel understood. It’s great. 🙂

  4. This was such a fantastic and in depth post about blogging! I loved seeing what you’ve learned and figuring out what works and what doesn’t work for you. I’ve found Pinterest to be REALLY helpful lately for finding blog traffic, but that means creating pins, which I’m still working on. But you’re absolutely right: keep on writing! Content is key, that’s why people will keep coming back to your blog. And the blogging community, whether on Twitter or other places, is the best! It’s amazing how many people you can connect with and share your blog with! And you’re doing fantastic for a beginner blogger! Your content is so consistent and well-written. I wish I had been more like you when I first started blogging!

    Emily | https://www.thatweirdgirllife.com

    1. Well, I hope I’ll be as persistent as you in my blogging! I’m known to give things up very quickly, and I’ve had plenty of failed personal blogs. I want to keep this consistency going though. If I ever stop being consistent in my posting, please nudge me! :p I’m sooooo bad at making pins, so I end up neglecting Pinterest. It’s such a bad practice. I guess I need consistency there too.
      You’re part of what makes the community amazing, I want you to know that. Let’s keep writing and improving our blogs! 🙂

  5. Wow!! This is serving as my motivation to continue with blogging for a looong time to come! You’ve written everything so coherently and your writing style is something I wish I had 🙊 I completely understand it when you don’t get the traffic you thought you’d get, regardless how much effort I put into a post. Of course, I only have two posts on my blog (lol) but I was expecting things to go at a much faster pace. 😬 great blog post!

    1. Hi Ayesha! I’m glad my little post is of value for you! Thanks for the compliment – it means so much to me. 🙂
      Welcome to the blogging club, Ayesha! It’s only normal for things to be slow at the beginning, and we all start out with 1 post. 🙂
      Pace yourself, moderate your expectation and enjoy writing!
      Thanks for reading and commenting!

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